Friday, July 24, 2009

GONE TOO SOON...

Salam.

I received the news as soon as it was announced that she was no longer with us and rushed to the hospital immediately.

Everyone grieved, cried and missed her.

There's nothing more to say.

She's gone.

But her magic lives on.

Al-fatihah.

Scores of people from the media had called and asked if I could lend them my thoughts with regards to arwah.

I don't know why, but I often declined, unless it was absolutely necessary and if the request came from a media person who has always been supportive of arwah Yasmin... who has always been there for Yasmin.... who has loved Yasmin and understood what she was going through and what she had tried to do.

I will not do it if I instinctively know that the media person was merely taking advantage of the situation, in order to get higher ratings in their radio or TV programs or higher sales for their newspaper or print media.

It is because of papers like Kosmo! which had so efficiently instigated hatred and encouraged fitnah that I refrain myself from making too many a public comment.

Sorry, if I am very selective.

I think I should be.

Because Min deserves nothing less than my love and loyalty.

Forgive me if I do not share my personal feelings with the public.

It is only because I want to be selfish and keep Min to myself.

I am still grieving and I am still mourning.

A huge part of my being is hollow because the very person who taught me how to love has left us.

56 comments:

  1. :(
    Kak Dibah, I wish her all the best and hope she is OK & makes a good recovery. Insya-allah.... hugs...!

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  2. Salam Adibah,

    Ya Allah, this is a very shocking news! I didn't know it until I opened your blog this morning. May she get well soon enough. Insyaallah...

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  3. I pray for a speedy recovery for Yasmin Ahmad. Insya-ALLAH.

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  4. salam.

    thank you all for your prayers. please continue with your doa

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  5. Dear Adee,
    Never thought people could do such thing to Yasmin. I am glad to know that she is alright and Insya Allah, she will get well soon. Pls extend my warmest regars to her. Take care.

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  6. Salam dib, sama2 kita doakan yasmin terus kuat dan segera sembuh...

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  7. Sis,

    I was shock too. Dorang main sebar berita macam hidup mati ni bole buat main je. Sungguh tak bersivik!

    Anyway, my prayers will be with her.

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  8. Alfatihah untuk aruah ..:(

    Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas rohnya. Amin.

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  9. Kak Adibah,

    She is no longer with us.
    Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan di kalangan orang2 yg beriman.
    Amin.

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  10. yasmin ahmad will always be in our hearts ,because the Lord love her too much ,and tooh her from us ,no one can replace her now ,haizzz.

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  11. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat..

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  12. kak dibah yang kusayangi..
    hehehe sehat?
    teringat aiskrim coklat yang kakdibah wat dalam filem Mukhsin.. sedap nyerr.. yum yum

    takziah buat family arwah

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  13. Again. Very shocking. I was chilling out in Penang when my friend recieved an sms from another friend. She told me. I was dumbfounded. Just speechless. Hard to believe. What a great lost.

    Like you said, GONE TOO SOON. Many good people just gone too soon when they could have given us, the country and the world so much more.

    Only Allah knows best. Al-Fatihah...

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  14. well Kak Deeb, i strongly agree with your statement that she's gone too soon...

    i think that beautiful souls like her [n the late MJ] were just too beautiful for this ugly, plasticized world and He loves them even more than us that they were taken early, so that they won't be damaged more further by the cruelty and the dirt of this cruel, dirty world...

    i'm so lost of words - al-Fatihah to her!

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  16. Ya allah...bahasa apa ni....

    nauzubillah....kak dib..bawak bersabar ngan teleatah org cenggini yer...

    semoga arwah yasmin berada di kalangan org2 yg beriman...

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  17. allah hu akbar..menda ni?

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  18. Adibah!!!! Please delete this comment by the Anonymous.

    My Goodness! So inappropriate at this time. Tak baik curahkan minyak ke api yg membakar, tau. Issue yg tak kena mengena sila bawa ke tempat lain.

    Hmmm... stop all these hatred please.

    TQ.

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  19. salam all.

    diharap semua akan terus mendoakan arwah yasmin. banyak pihak yang suka nak mengaibkan arwah. kita doa semoga arwah sejahtera di sana kerana Allah itu Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Mengasihani.

    Yasmin pula seorang yang tidak pernah membelakangi Allah, malah tindak tanduknya semua berlandaskan kepercayaannya kepada Allah dan arwah seorang anak yang cukup setia dan taat kepada ibu bapanya. arwah menjunjung ibu dan ayahnya ke mana sahaja arwah pergi dan dalam semua tindakannya.

    Allah Maha Besar., Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Mengasihani.

    Berkenaan dengan entry oleh anonymous itu... u all usah melatah on my behalf k.

    Saya percaya, anonymous telah cut and paste komen tu dari blog lain.

    Thank you anonymous.

    Saya rasa anonymous berbuat demikian sebab, dah banyak emel saya terima mengenai tulisan blog itu dan ramai suruh saya baca komen tersebut dan jawapan saya tetap sama.... tak pa, tak payah baca,... biarkan saja orang itu begitu.

    Mungkin anonymous tak puas hati dengan jawapan saya, dan teringin sangat saya baca dan mana tahu, anonymous juga mengharapkan satu respond yang sensasi daripada saya.

    Ok anonymous... saya dah baca dan saya hanya mampu tersenyum dan hati saya sedikit pun tidak terguris.

    Kepada yang menyayangiku.... saya takkan delete entry anonymous, kerana dia dah berusaha cut and paste tulisan itu untuk tatapan kita semua.

    Sama2 kita hayati dan renungkan. Kita doakan penulis itu sentiasa sejahtera dan semoga dia berbahagia dengan segala kata2 yang telah diucapkan.

    Semoga Allah limpahi dia (penulis blog itu) dengan sejuta rahmat dan selimuti dia dengan kesejahteraan. Amin

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  20. As usual Adibah noor is very calm and steady person and does not flare up easily ,if anonnymous has a dick (sorry for my impudence Kak )or breast, please say properly ,state your name,tell what changes in Adibah Noor you want to see ,and maybe Adibah Noor can change that in her again ,talk to her because she's human .No one is perfect ,and you may have issues with Adibah noor ,and dislike her in certain ways ,and we can pinpoint a person's fault just like a teacher commenting on a student's work , to see change ,this is very common ,however if you comment ethically ,perhaps you wouldn't cause such outrage among others,and pleasssssssssss for goodness sack, you got dylexia ahhh ,using such broken and terrible Malay!!Disgrace !You didnt read the news many years ago ,the government wants us to use the Bahasa Baku Ahhhh !!!By the way Kak Adibah noor ,dont worry , my friend is a political secretary,so who is fearing who ?Sorry Kak to turn your Blog into a pasar but i am very piss off with Morons who dont understand the meaning of 1 Malaysia ,and doesn't make peace even within their own race scolding and cursing each other with the same mother tounge please dont ban me after this comment :)

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  21. Kak dib,

    kindly read this if u r free.

    http://adzratulwahidah.blogspot.com/2009/07/gossip-is-not-kool-when-ur-dead.html

    screw kosmo!

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  22. Walau aper pun niat si animalous..
    opps... Anonymous tu...
    Saya yakin yg dier mmg x tau aper
    maksud "dosa-pahala"...
    atau sememang nyer dier salah sorg
    "pengikut" fanatik kpd seorg yg "konon" nyer mengaku perfect ?? Hai... Entahlah....
    Dunia...dunia...

    Aper2 pun, Takziah wat seluruh
    keluarga Arwah...

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  23. dear grace,
    i believe anonymous merely cut and pasted the entry from another blog, owned by another "celebrity".

    it is quite common knowledge among my fans that there is a celebrity out there who is angry with me.

    i have received many complaints from my fans about his blog, and i believe, anonymous merely wanted me to read what was written in the other guy's blog.

    please dont be angry with anonymous k hehe

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  24. dear doordie,
    i read your blog.
    thanks for standing up for arwah yasmin.

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  25. dear bantalgoleks,
    let anonymous remain anonymous k hehe.
    yang penting kita harus berani, jika kita yakin kita benar ;)

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  26. salam kak dibah....saya memang peminat kak dibah... minat sangat2.... suara kak dibah memang sedap... insyaAllah kalu ada kesempatan, teringin nak jumpa ngan kak dibah... ok... Salam....

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  27. apisbudakbaik... terima kasih atas sokongan. kalau nak jumpa, insyaallah satu hari nanti kita akan berjumpa.

    akan lebih dekat sekiranya apis join yahoogroups saya... just email deebers_adibahnoor-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

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  28. Salam Kak Adibah,

    Like you, I am still grieving and I am still mourning over the loss of Yasmin Ahmad. I still not over the fact that she's gone.

    I may not know her like you do. But I love her and her works the first time I saw her.

    Semoga arwah tenang di sisi Tuhan.. Amin..

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  29. biasalah bila dah takde baru terasa kehilangannya. minat kat arwah sebab kelainannya dan keberaniannya merubah...

    salam kenal dan salam sayang dari saya yg pernah jumpa dan salam ngan dib kat restoran mahbob kat bangsar, tak kisah kalu dib lupa sebab peminat ramai.

    Suker sgt suare dib yg kelas tu. ur r so kihiut...muah muah muahhh

    dari peminat yg ade kelas gaks hahaha
    anjunglara.blogspot.com

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  30. Saya kagum how you were so cool, calm and collected during your performances at JOM HEBOH in Kuching recently, esp so soon after the heart breaking news. Tahniah kerana saya dan suami managed to laugh out loud during your vogueing segment with Dina. BTW camne you nampak cool as a cucumber je mlm tu?

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  31. shikin.... bila you teringat kat arwah... kirimkan al fatihah buat dia k... thanks so much

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  32. noorlara... thanks for your thoughts.

    mintak maaf kalau saya tak ingat, but terima kasih sebab sudi salam ngan saya time tu.

    akak ni memang spesis pelupa dek... ya allah hai

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  33. mama hulubalang....Allah sahaja yang tahu, betapa beratnya kaki saya nak meneruskan langkah ke Kuching sejurus selepas arwah meninggal dunia.

    saya pohon kekuatan daripada Allah jua kak.

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  34. Kak Dib,
    Hingga hari ini, aku masih berkabung atas pemergian arwah Yasmin Ahmad....masih belum puas aku menatap karya2 beliau. Semoga karyanya kan terus menjadi lagenda untuk dihayati bersama selama-lamanya. Al Fatihah, salam takziah untuk keluarga arwah..

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  35. therinderinblack... bikla rindu kat arwah, sedekahkanlah al fatihah kepada nya... kalau rindu pada karyanya... tengoklah youtube.. cari iklan2 dia... pas tu pergi baca blog dia... memang sejuk saja hati bila baca...sebab macam dia ada kat depan kita sedang berbicara... blog yasmin ada dua... yasminthestroyteller.blogspot.com dan yasminthefilmmaker.blogspot.com

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  36. Terima Kasih Adibah Kerana SETIAKASIH SETIAKAWAN anda terhadap Arwah Yasmin.

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  37. ADIBAH! Orang hulur NAJIS. Kita hulur BUNGA. Wajah kita berseri. Hati kita WANGI.

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  38. wow u r a real lady kak Deeb!

    lantak org gitu kan, tak mati pun kene kata... tak kenyang pun bila kita dengar kata orang gitu...

    bebuih2 mulut dia besok pas tak renti2 merapik, bentilah dia tu...
    nyawa kita pun tak tentu lama mana kan?
    sok2 Tuhan cabut nyawa kita, dah takkan bleh nk becakap lagi dah...

    yg suka membaca pun takkan selamanya suka... takkanla takde rasa sekelumit pun jenuh atau bosan bila asik dihidang benda tak semenggah je sentiasa, seolah2 takde yg baik boleh nak dikongsi bersama, kan?

    tah, kadang manusia ni tak sedar apa fungsi meka... biarlah org camtu...

    anyway keep on rocking sistah - i always pray all the best for u, and of course, for arwah YA too...

    to DoOrDie - screw KOSMO! too! and not forgetting sokaba cekodok tu jugak!

    salam wbt kak...

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  39. salam kak dibah.

    semoga kak dibah sihat dan akan pulih dari kesedihan tu. don't worry, yasmin is in good hand now.

    psl anonymous tu, lantak ajelah. tuhan tu adil kan. jd biar Dia aje yg balas. bak kata ibu sy, sorang bencikan kita, sepuluh org akan syg kita.

    u take care, darling. muah muah! :)

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  40. kak dibah,

    saya minat ngan kak dibah..funny, comel...hehehhe..

    about another blog of that kind of celebrity, malas nak komen..rasa nak carut je...bodoh le dia tu!!ayat2 dia taip kat dlm blog dia mcm tak sekolah jer..payah nak paham...org2 yg mcm dia je yg paham kot..

    dia ingat LASER dia tu ada org kisah ke...tu bukan laser, tp bodoh sombong...sian dia...confuse identity...

    biarkan je la kak dibah, dia tak takut dosa..yg penting, ramai peminat kak dibah yg sayang dgn kak dibah...especially saya!!

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  41. miss her too..
    al fatihah..

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  42. adibah noor juga the best..
    biar lah luncai dengan labu labu nya..
    puas i cari your blog ker facebook ke.. nak tengok kucing kucing you. i love cats
    you can view my cats at flickr..
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/ariffjrs/

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  43. kak dib.. cool aja kan.. berkoyan koyan kak dibah dapat pahala free free jer..
    ucapkan alhamdulillah je.. seperti saya dengar ceramah. itu tanda kak dibah di dalam perhatian dia untuk meningkatkan prestasi kak dibah kan kan.. yang penting.. lu pikir lah sendiri... he hehehe

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  44. yasmin dia memang baik orang nya.. saya biasa beremail dengan dia suatu masa dulu
    kenal di flickr.com..
    memang saya rasa kehilangan dia. betul kata you.. kalau rindu kat dia pergi ke youtube.. memang sayu perasaan saya. and there is my tribute to her.
    al fatihah..
    she loves cats too. .. bila dia lihat flickr saya terus dia minta saya beremail dengan dia .. i love her way of friendship..
    i love this
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FGOoIp93LJA
    ideas on one malaysia

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  45. kak dibah...who is anonymous???how dare he is!kak dibah, biarkan dia na cakap apa pun. at lis kak dibah dapat offer jadi mentor yang menunjukkan bahawa bakat kak dibah memang di kagumi.ignore him kak dibah!

    4 arwah yasmin, al-fatihah...

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  46. waaaahhhhhh banyak nyer.. i pulak tak online lama kat blog ni.... nanti i jawab satu2 ya

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  47. anonymous.... nih bukan anonymous yang cut and paste entry yang org tak suka tu kan hehehe....

    terima kasih anonymous atas kata2 semangat mu :D

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  48. kimi... mulut tempayan bleh ler kita tutupkan... tak pun kita pecah kan jer terus hehehe.. mulut manusia adalah anggota yang kita tiada hak atau kuasa nak tutupkan or pecahkan.

    yang best tu, kadang mulut tutup jer, tapi jari jemari yang memetik keyboard tu pulak yang laju ya..... (tak tau ler pulak ada org ternganga sambil menaip eheheh)

    so biornyer ler.

    people seek happiness in different ways.

    so maybe, itu cara org tu mengecapi bahagia.

    biorkan jer

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  49. jude,
    sentuhan magis arwah meresap ke dalam jiwa dan terakar ke dalam roh.

    segala kata nista oleh mereka yang menidakkan kebenaran, insyaallah menjadi pemangkin kepada doa restu ayah bondanya agar dia terus aman di sana, insyaallah.

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  50. mulan,
    dont worry, saya tak amik pot pun.

    thank you for loving me :D

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  51. ari, yes i've met her cats.... joel and creamy hehee

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  52. sue zanne... jangan marah anonymous.. bukan dia yang cakap gitu.. dia cuma cut and paste jer dari blog org lain... kewl k :D

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  53. Anonymous.... nih bukan anonymous yang cut and paste entry yang org tak suka tu kan hehehe....

    terima kasih anonymous atas kata2 semangat mu :D

    YA! SAYA! DIFFERENT ANONYMOUS. HATI SAYA BAIK. HA! HA! HA! PERTAMA KALI SAYA MELIHAT SAUDARI BERAKSI DI BINTANG KLASIK, SAYA TAU SAUDARI BOLEH PERGI JAUH. SETIAP KALI MELIHAT SAUDARI BERAKSI DI TV SELEPAS TU, SAYA JADI SANGAT KESIAN. KALAULAH SAUDARI DILAHIRKAN DI AMERIKA, SAUDARI SUDAH LAMA TERNAMA. BERKAT TEKUN DAN SABAR, SAUDARI BERADA DALAM KELAS YANG TERSENDIRI. BE HUMBLE ADIBAH! TAK RUGI! ARWAH AMAT BERUNTUNG. HIDUP MENDAPAT BLESS DARI IBU BAPA DAN KELUARGA.SATU RAHMAT. KARYA2 ARWAH MENUNJUKKAN ARWAH MEMPUNYAI EMPATHY YANG TINGGI. HARAP2 SO DO YOU. BUKAN SEMUA ORANG ADA EMPATI. IA ANUGERAH. YANG MENYALAK RAMAI. NAK MENJATUHKAN ORANG PUN RAMAI.

    GOOD LUCK!

    SAYA TUJUKAN LAGU INI UNTUK ADIBAH SEMPENA PERTEMUAN DENGAN "DR ANGKASAWAN". HA! HA! HA!

    http://www.imeem.com/wad3sool/music/5mdMXd9r/3amr-mostafa-lamastak/?rel=1
    لمستك نسيت الحياه
    وانت اللى بحلم اعيش يوم معاه
    والليله هى البدايه وخليك معايا
    دةعمرى الليله دى ابتدا
    ولازم نعيش يللا قرب كمان
    تعالى حبيبى لأبعد مكان
    ننسا اللى ضاع من ئيدينا نعيش بسلينا
    خلاص اللى جوانا بان
    سرحت بعيونك لفين
    ايوة انت جمبى وهعشلك سنين
    وحياتى قرب علييا يا عمرىوعنييا
    نعيش الحياه لو يومين

    TAU APA YANG CUBA DIZAHIRKAN? DON'T GET ME WRONG. BUKAN RIAK DAN MENUNJUK2. TO SHARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SONG.

    MEMADAI DUA BARIS PERTAMA TERJEMAHANNYA.....
    I touched you and forgot life
    And you are the one I dream to live with one day

    LALU ADIBAH MEMBALASNYA .....
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    TERIMA KASIH KERANA "KERONCONG HUJAN" YANG SUNGGUH INDAH......

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  54. OPPPS! BINTANG NESCAFE KLASIK...

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  55. I just discover your blog Kak Dibah. Thanks to twitter.

    Thank you for this post.. yes! she left magic..magic that changes many lives including mine..

    Al fatihah...

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